Lead by example

Things can always get out of hands. It’s just a matter of time, how you control and see things. We often expect things to get better by doing nothing. Hey, you can find a solution to your problem, but you can’t run away from it.

“Do or die” is something one would say if a situation determines their success. I’ve seen enough positive minded people making it all the way through but in the midst of its work, they always get themselves hurt. Not physically, but mentally, emotionally and so on…

I’ve also seen people who are living it freely, the world is their oyster and all they do is enjoy all day long, and still make it to the end. They’d stick around you, but you would always seem unimportant to them. They only get to you, when they need something. Continue reading

When you’re at your lowest

Yes, I admit that I too have some bad times. Nobody was born with a perfect life but I hate going through this stage of life. It continues to get worst no matter how hard I try to make myself happy and not think about all the negative thoughts that is bringing me down.

And at this stage, not one single soul is there to be at help except my family… I’ve posted this on my Facebook and it seems to get a lot of attention from people who could relate to what I’m feeling.

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Never give up

Yeah you heard it countless times around the corners but do you ever feel that sense of losing the faith in continuing what you are doing? What does that phrase actually mean?

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It’s written in the skies

I can and I will do whatever it takes for me to be with the one I love. But ‘time’, we can’t buy it but you can’t get the value of time anywhere else in this world. You could be the richest man on earth, but you can’t buy love and time. Or you could be a man with all the time in the world but with no money to spare.

See, life is fair. It has equal weights on both sides. Pros and cons, disadvantages and advantages. All we need is to find the balance between the two. You can’t simply juggle both at the same time…

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Think like a successful person

I got asked again yesterday.”Putra, how did you become successful?”There’s probably a lot of answers to that question but the answer I gave (and nearly always do) is simply this:

To become successful, you have to think like a successful person.
To become wealthy, you have to think like a wealthy person.

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Top it all up

Ever since I was young, I always love to explore and experiment with a lot of things. I would pretend like I was a bartender or barista serving people their orders. I have always had a business mindset – it runs in the blood I guess. Lol. But the unique thing about the things I do, is that I like to add something special into it.

You know like how they sell and market ice-cream or froyo(frozen yoghurt?) They have all the other condiments or also know as, toppings. Yeah, I simply like to add more topping into the things I do, to make it more special, unique and out of the ordinary.

Now that the month of Ramadhan is nearing, I have a lot of food that I’m craving for. A MacDonald’s Double McSpicy would be great!

Okay, enough with the food. Haha!

There is no going back

A car has its reverse gear and we have the option to use it. Our life doesn’t come with a reverse gear but how I wish I could turn back the time and change things in the past for a better future.

Ever felt the same way? Yeah, I feel this way most of the time.

People come into our lives and leave us as they wish. That’s what this package is all about – parts and parcels of life. At times, it gets really interesting enough.

It amazes me how easy it is for things to change, how easy it is to start off down the same road you always take and wind up somewhere new. Just one false step, one pause, one detour, and you end up with new friends or a bad reputation or a boyfriend/girlfriend or a breakup.

It’s never occurred to me before; I’ve never been able to see it. And it makes me feel, weirdly, like maybe all of these different possibilities exist at the same time, like each moment we live has a thousand other moments layered underneath it that look different.

Turn over a new leaf…

Sometimes, we get bored of the same old thing everyday. But you simply don’t realize it. No matter what we do, you have no other choice but to overcome it. Life. That’s what we call it.

So what do we do? We change for the better. Change the daily routines, make full use of every minute and every second while you still have them. You may never know when you might leave this world. Love unconditionally and always give without expecting anything in return. I learnt this from one of my mentors who used to coach me on “Successful Thinking.”

And to my surprise, it has helped me in many different ways than I could ever imagine. From my relationship, personal life, business & social interaction. It brings out the best in you.

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